My Story
There are some journeys that change the course of your life forever.
For me, fertility was one of them.
Not only professionally, but personally, spiritually, emotionally, and deeply within the body.
I’m Ashley Holmes, a Holistic Fertility Coach, trauma-informed practitioner, speaker, 3X international bestselling author, podcast host, yoga and meditation practitioner, Reiki practitioner, and Ayurvedic guide devoted to supporting women through one of the most tender seasons of their lives.
Long before I guided women through this work… I lived it myself.
I know what it feels like to desperately want a baby while trying to hold yourself together on the outside.
I know the quiet ache of unexplained infertility.
The emotional exhaustion of secondary infertility.
The endless cycle of hope, disappointment, overthinking, researching, tracking, and questioning your own body.
I know what it feels like to wonder:
Why is this happening when all I want to do is love a baby?
I also know what it feels like when motherhood arrives in ways that feel nothing short of miraculous.
Today, I’m a mother to three beautiful children, including twins and my youngest, "my little Halloween baby," each of them carrying their own sacred story into this world. Their lives are a reminder to me daily that timing, healing, surrender, and trust often unfold differently than we expect.
My path into this work was never about “fixing” fertility.
It became about understanding the woman beneath the fertility journey.
The nervous system.
The emotional body.
The stress held silently for years.
The pressure so many women place on themselves.
The grief that often goes unseen.
The deep longing to feel safe in their body again.
Through my own experience, I realized that fertility is not only physical — it is emotional, energetic, spiritual, and deeply interconnected.
That realization changed everything.
My work now weaves together trauma-informed coaching, nervous system support, Ayurveda, mindfulness, meditation, energetics, yoga philosophy, and mind-body healing practices to create a space where women can soften out of survival mode and reconnect with themselves again.
Not through force.
Not through perfection.
Not through toxic positivity.
But through compassion, safety, awareness, and deep inner connection.
I wholeheartedly believe your body is not working against you.
I believe your body is communicating with you.
The greatest transformation begins not when we push harder… but when we finally feel safe enough to soften and surrender.
Whether I’m speaking on podcasts and stages, guiding women privately, leading meditations, or sharing conversations through my own podcast, my intention is always the same:
To help women feel seen, supported, empowered, and less alone in their journey.
This work is sacred to me because I know firsthand how isolating fertility struggles can feel, especially when you’re carrying them quietly.
You do not have to navigate this alone.
No matter where you are in your journey right now… there is still space for hope, healing, possibility, and profound transformation.